The Unraveling and the Becoming

“She slipped the handmade dress on. It was snug now, a little short. Imperfect. Real. She looked in the mirror, not at the tired eyes or the slightly-too-tight seams, but at the woman emerging. The one who carried her mother’s quiet strength in her bones, even as she navigated her own path. The bills were still there. The job was still demanding. The boundaries would need constant tending. But the crushing weight felt… different. Lighter, somehow, infused with a new understanding.

Aging, she realized, wasn’t an accident of time, but a necessary unfolding. The bills, the burnout, the battles for boundaries – they weren’t just obstacles to survive. They were the chisel, the fire, the relentless current shaping the stone, tempering the steel, carving the riverbed of her true self. Each hardship, each hard-won boundary, each moment of choosing compassion over resentment, was revealing her own character, line by weathered line. The becoming hurt. It was exhausting. But beneath the weariness, a new kind of strength, bittersweet and deeply earned, began to bloom…”

Smile Extensions and Haunted Knees

My face, a roadmap, each line a tale,
Of laughter, mishaps, and diets that fail.
Crow’s feet? No—smile extensions, dear,
Earned from bad jokes and too much beer.

My knees will creak like a haunted floor,
But I’ll still dance—just near the door.

But oh—what joy in the little things then,
Like finding my keys and my glasses again!